Reminscings

It’s the end of the day, and my mind finally has time to wander.  Today I found myself thinking about the past, to a time where my life revolved around blissful summers filled with popsicles, bike rides, and playing House, rather than work and rush hour.  Mid-August was a time of getting nervous and excited about the start of a new school year (did I remember how to do fractions?!), purchasing bouquets of new crayons, and maybe even a Lisa Frank folder.

I also looked back on my life 20 years ago compared to today.  My penny loafers have turned into stilettos, side ponytails controlled by a crushed velvet scrunchie have been transformed into long beach waves, and bouquets of crayons have become bouquets of lipstick.  I no longer worry about fractions; instead, I worry about financial goals at work.  Every year I question what makes more sense- going home for Thanksgiving or for Christmas?  Am I doing what I really want to do with my life?

If my mother were to read this and realize that I’m (still) worried about things, she would remind me of the timeless adage “Will this matter in five years?  One year?  Two months?” And she’s right.  Some things will be rendered trivial, but many things – family, loyalty, good humor, and kindness – will remain cornerstones of our lives.  So go ahead.  Be kind and give away your prized purple crayon.  Surprise your sister with weekend getaway.  Laugh until you are gasping for air.  And above all else, show those who are nearest and dearest to your heart, that you love them.  I promise that you will find joy in all of these things.

August may no longer mark a beginning for you, but it is as good a time as any to take a moment to sit quietly and reflect on things.  If you let your mind wander, you might be surprised what it comes up with.

 

~ C

First Post / ABOUT

What is Fork and Flair?

Fork and Flair is the result of a friendship that began over six years ago in Shanghai, China. And as we like to view it, it was destiny. How could two people who have an affinity for bubble tea, extraordinary street shopping bargains, and photo shoots not form a close bond?

Despite the hundreds of miles that separated us from the moment we moved out of our apartment in Shanghai, we made sure that countless letters arrived on one another’s doorstep with incredible regularity. Said letters contained everything from the mundane (“I bought a new toothpaste, and I love it”), to more personal matters about our lives, relationships, and emotional ups and downs.

Over the years, we’ve purchased hundreds of stamps and stationary sets, because, as it turns out, we have a lot to tell each other.

We’ve had some fun and learned some lessons along the way in the realms of fashion, food, home décor, and travel, so why not share our thoughts? This blog contains the musings of two 20-somethings, and whether or not you take something away from it, always remember the following:

Smile.

Be brave.
Be curious.
Be playful.
Be strong.

Save old snapshots.
Call your grandmother.
Primp at leisure and always wear lipstick.
Life is a party. Dress like it.
Be so happy that when others look at you, they become happy too.
Believe that you’re beautiful, because you are.

 

~ J & C